Monday, March 28, 2016


Hello everyone!

I am just going to dive right in. I am in the super ghetto side of Jersey City. I go to sleep every night to non stop sirens. There is so much unhappiness here. You never see a smile on anyone's face, everyone is yelling and swearing into their phones. It is as easy to spot someone in hand cuffs from your car as it is to spot a Mormon Temple from a Utah highway...But I freaking love it here! The members here are so unique and everyone is so open to what I have to say because they can see our happiness and want it for their own lives. 

I have the amazing opportunity to change the world from the ground level. On Friday we helped a 60 year old man Learn how to read.  On Thursday I got to meet with someone who is in the process of getting off of cocaine. on Wednesday I met with a 11 year old girl who has big dreams and aspirations, she said that since she had been baptized (a week ago) she really has started to believe in herself and who she could be because she learned from the missionaries that god had a plan for her. And that was the moment that hit me the hardest. It is the truth. God is mindful of each of us and has a hand in all of our lives. He has a plan for each of us, and as we choose him we can receive what it is he has in store for us.  

There is a member of the church who goes by the name Princess. 2 years ago she was a cocaine dealer, but now she has a firm belief in the gospel of Jesus Christ and has had a complete 180. I wish I had more time to tell her story but I am out of time.   

I love you all and your prayers mean the world!

Love,

Elder McOmber    




    
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Wednesday, March 16, 2016

pictures second week at Mission Training Center





2nd letter from the Mission Training Center


Hello everyone,

Special shout out to Grandma Arnesen for sending the cookies! They were so good. Thank you to all those who sent me emails and DearElders, I appreciate it, they definitely help in the tough moments.

This week was a roller coaster I had some really big uplifting moments, and some moments that hit me hard. Overall, a huge week for my personal growth, both spiritually and mentally. Here we get a lot of time to study the scriptures. Its up to each missionary how they use it, for me I love to try to answer the questions that I have about the gospel. The teachers here give us a lot of great insights but when we ask a specific question about the gospel that isn't necessarily needed knowledge to effectively teach people, they tell us to search the scriptures and pray, at first I was a little annoyed because I wanted the answers right away, but as I have done what they said, and searched for the answers, I have had some amazing insights to questions that I didn't even know I had. I have gained a very strong testimony of personal revelation.

In one of my personal study times I really dove into the armour of God that is found in the bible, in Ecclesiastes chapter 6. The armour of God is something we put on spiritually as we make the right decisions and strengthen our faith. In verses 11 and 12 it says:

11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.

12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.  

This is saying that we need to strengthen this armour that we can't see because we are fighting an adversary that we can't see. Though I can't see it, I know it is there, it tries to drag us down, and make us less than what we can be.

The chapter talks about each piece of armour, I don't have the time to go through each piece, but I will go into one because It is an insight that I feel not enough people see. In verse 16 it says:

16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.

I have always read this and not thought much of it but this time I saw the "above all" and decided to pay extra attention. It was then that I realized that the fiery darts are those things that make us question our faith, whether it be something that someone says that sounds logical but may shake our belief, or as simple as discouragement within ourselves, that voice telling us we are no good. Too often we blame God or the church for this when really the problem is our shield. It is up to us to build our faith or strengthen our shield. If we get hit, it's because we have a hole in our shield and need to fill it with faith, prayer, and scripture study. I promise that as you decide to strengthen your faith, you will be blessed by God.     

I invite you all, on your own or with your families, to read Ecclesiastes chapter 6 and gain those precious insights on how to protect yourself.

I love you all, 

Elder McOmber 

To explain the pictures... there is one of me and my companion with the pies that his mom sent us for PI day, It was really cool for her to reach out to me like that when she doesn't even know me! There are a few that show me and my companion with the new elders that came into our zone in the past week. There is also one of a pringles can wrapper that has a face on it. The face was there when we opened it, it is impossible to wipe off so we think of it as our own little wilson that was sent to us (that was a Cast Away reference for those that missed it)

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Hello everyone!

The words that best describe the past few days are, It is all clear.

I arrived at the Missionary Training Center (MTC) on Wednesday. From the moment I got here I have felt the holy ghost. Though I miss movies and music, It is amazing to take a break from all of that and focus on my relationship with God and bringing people closer to Christ.

I was told that the hours would be long and that I would be sitting in a classroom for long periods of time, and they weren't wrong... but to my surprise, I love it! I have never learned so much so fast in my entire life and I am grateful that I have the chance to really grow as a person as well as a teacher in my time here. Before I came, I thought that being a missionary was to just tell people about my religion, but I have learned it is so much more than that. What I am doing is trying to help people understand Jesus Christ and his atoning sacrifice, and what we can do as people to become the best we can be. That isn't accomplished by telling people about it, it is done through discussion and explanation.

My favorite experience I have had here was in the testimony meeting on Sunday. In this meeting everyone in my branch got up and bore their testimony on why they are here and what they believe. One of the sisters has been suffering from anxiety and has these massive panic attacks where she hyperventilates. While she was baring her testimony she started to have  a panic attack, for about 3 long seconds she Hyperventilated. She could have ended her testimony there and we all would have completely understood why and would not have thought anything bad, and I am sure she knew that. But instead she decided to keep going, she ended up giving a 4-5 minute testimony of this church and its truthfulness, all the while fighting back this panic attack that would come every 20 seconds and would last for those 2-3 seconds until she was able to gain control again. You could see the fight in her eyes the entire time. As soon as she finished, the panic attack came in full and her and her companion had to leave until she could gain full control. That was the most powerful testimony I have ever witnessed. It reminded me of the prophet Abinadi in how he didn't let anyone silence him until he had finished what he was meant to say. She unfortunately has been asked to go home and receive help, but when she gets it under control she will have the opportunity to come out again. In my conversation with her before she had to go home she told me that she has faith that she will be able to return to the mission. Her faith has shown me the importance of my testimony. I only have this one chance to be a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. When it gets really hard on my mission, when the people of New Jersey slam the door in my face, I will remember this Sister and her great faith. I will know the worth of my testimony. I know that there is someone out there in New Jersey who is wondering where he came from, why he is here, and where he is going. I will be able to supply those answers and show him his purpose in life. 

I love you all and I wish you the best!

Elder McOmber



The pictures include my first tie swap tie, my companion and me, my district at the temple, as well as the missionaries that I have grown to love over the past few days.

Thursday, March 3, 2016

My cousin mark took the day off of work to be Justin's companion and drop him off at the mission training center in Provo, Utah. I love what mark said. Give em heaven Elder!

The MTC is Justin's home for the next three weeks.  He will be learning the discussions, learning the rules and how the mission will be for him.  They will practice, and work in groups, teaching one another. What a wonderful experience this will be for Justin.  We are thrilled for him, even though as I was putting clothes away yesterday, I found myself shedding a few tears.  We will all selfishly miss him here, especially Gregory, but we all know he is in the right place, doing the right thing.  What more could you ask for as a mother?

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Justin spoke on Sunday in church, and in case you didn't have a chance to hear it, this is a copy of his talk.

            Hello and thank you all for coming today, I love you very much, and it is an honor to be speaking in front of you, about to set off on my journey as a missionary amongst the people of New Jersey. Growing up I have heard many people give me this one piece of advice, learn by the spirit, live by the spirit, and teach by the spirit. This simply means, keep the holy ghost as a constant companion in your life. In the Book of Mormon in Moroni 10:5 it reads “And by the power of the Holy Ghost ye may know the truth of all things.” and in the Bible In John 15:26 it says, “But when the Comforter is come, whom I will send unto you from the Father, even the Spirit of truth, which proceedeth from the Father, he shall testify of me.” The holy ghost testifies of truth being told by a warm calm and peaceful feeling in your heart kind of like a warm fuzzy. I hope that as I say these words you feel that warm feeling in your hearts.
            I was asked to speak today on Prophets. I think this is perfect because It is my favorite piece of this church that makes us different from any other church. (like brother patterson said) prophets have always been a part of gods church and was restored in these later days. One of my favorite prophets in the history of this world is found in the old testament. His name is Moses, you may have heard of his act of amazing faith parting the Red Sea. After the lord lead him to free the hebrew people from the Egyptians, the lord commanded Moses to hike to the top of a mountain and it is here that he had an amazing experience. We hear about it in Exodus 33:11, it reads, "And the Lord spake unto Moses face to face, as a man speaketh unto his friend.”  What an amazing blessing to have that direct communication with God to know what he wishes. Another amazing prophet in the history of christ's church is Peter. As I am sure many of you know, Jesus Christ called Peter to be a prophet in the church and also ordained apostles to assist him in the work. This structure of the church was meant to continue on as long as the people would accept it. This is evident in the first chapter of Acts, when Mathias is called to replace Judas as an apostle in the church, so that there would continue to be 12 apostles. Unfortunately the world began to reject the lords church, the apostles and prophets were killed, and consequently many truths were lost or altered, and the world fell into the dark ages. Eventually, people who had the ability to read the bible like Martin Luther, john knocks, John calvin, and Jan hus (yan hoos), realized that many truths found in the bible had been lost, and did their best to reform it. many of these people were burned for believing those things. One of the people burned for his beliefs was John Tinsdale, the reason he received this harsh punishment was because he translated the bible from latin to english. He was quoted saying, “I just wanted to make it so that any plowboy could know as much about gods word as a priest.”
            Many years later, just after America was formed for freedom of religion, a young plowboy, by the name Joseph Smith was reading in John Tinsdale’s translation of the bible, in James 1:5 and it says, if anyone lacks wisdom, let him ask of god,” Joseph Smith wrote about reading this scripture, he said, “Never did any passage of scripture come with more power to the heart of man than this did at this time to mine. It seemed to enter with great force into every feeling of my heart. I reflected on it again and again, knowing that if any person needed wisdom from God, I did.” This is a perfect example of how the spirit works, you feel it, and then later what you heard or read will be brought to your remembrance, again and again and it always inspires action, and the action that it inspired for Joseph Smith, was to go into a grove of trees and pray to know which of the many churches he should join and it was at that moment that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ appeared to Joseph Smith, and heavenly father introduced the mediator between God and man and said this is my beloved son, hear ye him. and then Jesus Christ spoke face to face with Joseph smith, as he did with Moses and Peter, and he said that the truth would later be revealed through him, through this experience Joseph Smith was called to be a  modern day Prophet, and the savior directed Joseph Smith to choose 12 apostles and organize the church with the same principles and ordinances found in Christ’s church of old. And since that time there has been a living prophet on the earth, today the prophet’s name is Thomas S. Monson. Prophets teach the word of God in clarity that all Heavenly fathers children may benefit and be blessed through obedience to their teachings. The modern day prophet that preceded Monson, named Gordan B. Hinkley, said this,A prophet speaks straightforwardly and without equivocation. Such is the mission of a prophet.”  The need for prophetic teachers who know the revealed word of God and who speak it directly is as important in our day as it has ever been. In a confusing world of conflicting ideas, shifting values, and selfish desire for power, we should study carefully the conversation between Philip and the man from Ethiopia. As this man was reading the scriptures, Philip ran to him and asked, Understandest thou what thou readest? And he said, How can I, except some man should guide me?”
          The teachings of a living prophet are often contrary to the trends of the world. So much of our modern world is based on self-indulgence, immediate gain and satisfaction. The gospel and kingdom of God are so much more than this. A few of the characteristics God prizes are patience, long-suffering, endurance, kindness, and brotherly love, none of which is short term or developed in a moment. I have done what I can to develop those traits throughout my life.
About a month ago I received a call to serve, from the living prophet on the earth today, to serve a 2 year mission in New Jersey. When I read the words contained in that letter I felt that warm calm and peaceful feeling, and I knew that it was the right place for me. Those of you who know me well, know this decision to serve a two year mission was not a spur-the-moment decision. I have felt the desire for a very long time. The spark first came listening to my fathers mission stories when I was young but grew much stronger when I actually visited the place he served his mission. It was there that I met the people he taught and I saw the kind of relationship he had with them. I could see the love they had for him as well as his love for them and I knew that there was no other way this could have come to be. But I gained a full testimony of a mormon mission when I visited the people my brother served and taught. It was there that I realized just how much of a difference the church made in their lives. You see not only did they have such a good relationship with my brother Christian, but I could see that the church gave them a very real sense of purpose and a cause for laughter and excitement. It was that moment, that I knew that I not only want to go on a mission, but I need to. I know that there is someone out there in New Jersey, right now, who is wondering what is the purpose of life, and I will have the opportunity to find him or her, like my brother did, and my father before him, and help that person find that purpose and be able to give that nudge in the right direction.
            In closing I would like to thank all of you for playing the role that you did in my growing to be the person you see today, and I bare you my testimony, that I know this is the true church and that Thomas S. Monson is a living prophet on the earth today. I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.